The inspiration behind the book

One Sunday morning as I sat with my coffee watching the sunrise I reflected on life and the emptiness left by the death of friends and loved ones over the years.

The day before had been the funeral of a friend who had not reached her 40th birthday. Consumed by cancer in less than three months, she had left behind two children the same age as my own.

I thought of her children’s pain and I felt the need to reach out to my own children and so I began writing The Little book of Hope. I let my hand be guided by my heart and if the result of that goes even a little way in providing comfort to someone bereaved, it will have all been worth it.

Louisa Grasso

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Do we need proof?

My own experiences

I was woken suddenly by someone placing their hands on mine and guiding my car away from the back of the lorry that I was driving into at high speed. I had fallen asleep on the motorway late at night as I drove home. I was 20. I knew immediately who it was, as real as if he was sitting in the passenger seat next to me. If he hadn't been there I would not be here to write my story.

When my 11-year-old nephew smiled as he came to lunch a few days after his father passed away, delighted that he had just seen his father in his study, it was not his imagination, it was as real for him as all of us sitting at the lunch table.

My daughter, when she was 5-year-old, waved out of the window to the clouds, shouting "Hello Bury Ami" her beloved Great Grandmother who had passed away the year before. When I asked what she had replied, she looked up from her game and said “Nothing, mummy, did you see her too? She often comes!"

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